12.10.23 - Small Group Discussion

Peace Small Group Video

Peace

Peace looks forward. 

• What stood out to you from Sunday’s sermon?

• Where do you experience peace during the Christmas season?

• Where do you feel a lack of peace during the Christmas season?

Read: Isaiah 9:1-7

• Look at the titles for Jesus in verse 6. Which one resonates most strongly with you?

• In what ways is Jesus the “Prince of Peace?”

Read: Ephesians 2:14-15

• How has Jesus brought peace to us? How is he our peace?

• Are there any areas of your life in which you feel conflict with God? How can you seek peace with him?

• Are there people who you need to seek peace with this Christmas? What can you do to seek lasting peace with them?

Read: Revelation 21:1-5

• Advent is the season of looking forward – to Jesus’ first arrival in Bethlehem, and to his second coming at the end of time. In was ways do you look forward to Jesus’ next arrival?

Pray: What conflict are you feeling now that we can pray about as a small group?

12.03.23 - Small Group Discussion

Peace Small Group Video

Adventus - Hope

• Before your group has a larger discussion about Hope, it is crucial to understand your current definition of hope. How would you define hope? Where did you get that definition?

• When have you experienced a hope that didn’t last or that inevitably let you down?

Read Ephesians 1:15- 23


• Has your definition of Hope changed since you met Jesus? How so?

Read Romans 8:18-23


• In Romans, Paul writes about how true hope helps us in this waiting period between this age and the age to come. What is something broken that you are waiting to be fixed in the age to come? Feel free to explain why if you are comfortable enough.

Read Revelation 21:1-7

• In Revelation, John describes what the age to come will be like. What is the most appealing thing in his description for you? Feel free to explain why if you are comfortable enough.

Scripture References: 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14, John 21:19-22, and Acts 2:42-47)

• Of the three main actions for having true hope, which is the hardest for you? Remembering that God’s kingdom is both now and in the future? Focusing on your heart, not other people? Living out of true hope as the church? Why is that so hard for you?

• Barclay suggests that while we live in this time of “Now But Not Yet,” we see both the good and evil, and because of this, we must always have hope. How does/should this change how you live? 

“The Christian is involved in the human situation. Within he must battle with his own evil human nature; without he must live in a world of death and decay. Nonetheless, the Christian does not live only in the world; he also lives in Christ. He does not see only the world; he looks beyond it to God. He does not see only the consequences of man’s sin; he sees the power of God’s mercy and love. Therefore, the keynote of a Christians life is always hope. And never despair. The Christian waits, not for death, but for life.” - William Barclay

11.26.23 - Small Group Discussion

The Bronze Snake Small Group Video

The Bronze Snake

We need to let go of our mistakes so we can LIVE in the light and be HIS people. 

• What is the best regret meme you have seen on the internet?

• Share with the group a moment of instant regret. Remember, what’s shared in small group stays in small group!

Read: Numbers 21:4-9

• Do you think you would be one of the whiners on this journey?  Why or why not?

• When Israel realized they had failed, what did they do?

• Would you have been able to be as patient as Moses was?  Why or why not?

•  What was God’s response when Moses prayed?

Read: John 3:14-21

• How does the lifting up of Jesus challenge and reshape our mistakes?

• What is the cost for God as he loves the world?

• What does that say about your value to him?

•  What regrets/sins/mistakes do you need to look to the cross for, confess, and be free of so you can live in the light?

Pray: Pray for you and your small group to have humility and let go of your mistakes.

11.19.23 - Small Group Discussion

The Punisher Small Group Video

The Punisher

God’s discipline can bring good from your worst mistakes. 

• How would you define the word discipline? What does it bring to your mind?

Read: Numbers 20:1-5

• Name some of the struggles and frustrations that Moses was facing at this moment.

• How do negative emotions and events in your life affect your decision-making?

Read: Numbers 20:6-10

• Moses didn’t strictly follow God’s instructions here. What were his specific deviations? Why do you think he did things this way?

Read: Numbers 20:12-13

• Why do you think God’s response to Moses so harsh?

Read: Hebrews 12:5-12

• Have you ever considered the concept of the “Lord’s discipline”? What does God’s discipline look like?

• Can you point to a time when you experienced God’s discipline?

• What can you do to welcome God’s discipline in your own life?

Pray: For the openness to welcome God’s discipline.

11.12.23 Small Group Discussion

Sin and Consequences Small Group Video

Sin and Consequences

When mistakes are made, there are always consequences.= 

• Tell us about a humorous mistake you’ve made. Why are humans so error-prone?

Read: Numbers 13:1-3

• How would you have felt if you were one of the scouts sent into Canaan?

Read: Numbers 13:25-33

• What was the actual sin of the 10 scouts who were opposed to entering the Promised Land? How have you personally dealt with that sin?

Read: (If you want the full story) Numbers 14:1-25

(If you want the spark notes version) Numbers 14:27-30

• What were the consequences for the Israelites in this story?

• What does tell us about God?

• What should be the response of God’s people when we make mistakes?

Read: Numbers 14:39-45

• Share a time when you were like the Israelites here, boldly pushing ahead into a situation where God was NOT present. What did you learn from that situation?

Read: 1 Timothy 2:5-6

• What has Jesus done for us in regards to our mistakes? How does that change our situation with God?

Pray: For the wisdom to recognize your mistakes, and the courage to rectify them.

11.05.23 Small Group Discussion

Mixed Up Small Groups Video

Mixed Up!

Holiness is displayed in how you live. 

• What was your youth sports experience like?

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, and from Sunday’s message?

Read: Leviticus 19:1-10

• How did these laws make the Israelites distinct from the nations who surrounded them?

Read: Leviticus 19:11-18

• Which of the laws we’ve read in this chapter continue to have bearing for us today?

Read Leviticus 19:19

• Have you heard of this law in the past? What was your reaction to it then?

• What does this law tell us about God’s heart for humankind?

• Name some ways that Christians “mix up” their faith with the attitudes and actions of this world?

• Which of those ways have been a temptation to you?

• How obvious is it to outsiders that you’re “playing for a different team?”

Pray: Ask God to help you identify areas you need to change so that others can tell you are a follower of Jesus.

10.29.23 - Small Group Discussion

Sacrifice Small Groups Video

SACRIFICE AND BLOOD

God makes a way to be close to his people.

• What is a time when you got dirty or stained and it wouldn’t come off?  How did that make you feel?

• What has been your experience so far with Leviticus?

Wally shared the following parts of the sacrifice this week:

• Unclean/impure provided something to sacrifice (had to cost you something)

• Lifeblood played a special role

• What was sacrificed was totally destroyed

• Sometimes you ate part of the sacrifice to show God was in covenant with Israel

Read: Leviticus 4

• As you read, note the specific parts of the sacrifice above.

• Which parts of the sacrifice ritual were you surprised by?  Why?

• Do you think you could function in a system like this?

• Why does God make it cost Israel something as they participate in sacrifice to stay clean/pure?

• God is always moving close to us.  He does so in the OT.  He does so through Jesus.  How does that make you feel? 

• What does that say about your worth to God?

Read Romans 12:1-2

• What do you need to surrender in your life to move closer to God?

Pray: Have each person share one thing they need to change and then pray for one another.

10.22.23 - Small Group Discussion

God In the Neighborhood Small Groups Video

God in the Neighborhood

To be holy is to be set apart.

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, and from Sunday’s message?

Read: Exodus 40:34-48

• If God were your next-door neighbor, what would that mean for how you live?

Read: Leviticus 1:1-9

• When you think of the book of Leviticus, what comes to mind?

Read Leviticus 1:10-17

• What catches your attention in these verses? What questions do you have about them?

Read: I Peter 1:13-16

• In what ways is your life different than that of the lives of your non-believing friends, co-workers, and family members?

• Is it obvious to others that you are a Christian?

• What do you need to do this week to live a more set-apart (holy) life?

Pray: Pray for God to open your eyes to specific ways in which you can practice holiness.

10.15.23 - Small Group Discussion

Ever Present Grace Small Group Video

Ever-Present Grace

You’re never too far gone for God to be your Ever-Present Help.

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, or from Sunday’s message?

Read: Exodus 23:20-26

• What all was God promising to do for the Israelites?

• How does verse 21 strike you?

Read: Exodus 4:3-7

• What did the Israelites promise to do? How’d that turn out for them?

Read Exodus 32:1-5

• Israel transgressed in the worst possible way here. Taking a big view of Scripture, why do you think God chose to withhold destruction from his people?

Leaders: Compare your group’s answers with Romans 3:25-26.

• Have you ever felt “too far gone,” unredeemable, or that you’ve messed up too badly to turn to God? If you are willing to share, tell us about that time.

• On Sunday, Walter shared that its “only when you understand the severity of your own sin, can you truly understand the gift of God’s grace.”

• When have you come face to face with the magnitude of your own sin?

• At what points in your life have experienced the reality of God’s grace?

Read Romans 3:23-26

• What is God saying to you through these verses?

Pray: Spend some time thanking God for his indescribably good gift of grace.

10.08.23 - Small Group Discussion

Rescue Small Groups Video

Rescue

When God calls, he is an Ever-Present Help

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, or from Sunday’s message?

Read: Exodus 3:1-10

• God got Moses’ attention with a burning bush. What has he used to get your attention?

Read: Exodus 3:11-12

• What is God’s answer to Moses’ first question? What are the implications of that?

• When have you heard God’s call in the past? How did you respond?

Read Exodus 3:13-16

• How would you characterize God’s response to Moses’ second question?

Read Exodus 4:1

• This is Moses’ third question of God. Does it seem reasonable to you?

Read Exodus 4:10-12

• What does God promise to do, and what does he not promise to do in response to Moses’ fourth question.

Read Exodus 4:13-14

• Why did God become angry with Moses after this fifth response?

• What has God been calling you to do recently? How willing are you?

Pray: For boldness in answering God’s call.

10.01.23 - Small Group Discussion

Confidence Small Group Video

Confidence

God has the power, and he is your ever-present help.

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, or from Sunday’s message?

Read: Psalm 46:1-11

• Which statements in this psalm show confidence?

• Who is someone you know who displays confidence in God. What does that look like?

Read: Genesis 41:1-7

• (Have someone in your group who knows the story of Joseph recap what happened in his life up to this point.)

Read Genesis 41:8-15

• In what ways had God helped Joseph up to this point? In what ways might Joseph have felt forgotten by God?

• Put yourself in Joseph’s shoes: how confident would you have been in God if you were him?

Read Genesis 41:16

• What does this verse tell us about Joseph? What does it say about God?

Read Genesis 41:40

• How many times does Joseph mention God in this chapter?

• What reasons did Joseph have to trust God so deeply?

Pray: Name an area in your life in which you’re struggling to trust God. Now go around the group and pray that each person grows to confidently trust God in that specific area.

09.24.23 - Small Group Discussion

Unstoppable Story Small Group Video

UNSTOPPABLE STORY

Looking backward helps us to move forward.

• How far back do you know your own family history? Where did you get your stories from?

• How does the thought of being forgotten make you feel?

Read: Genesis 25:19-34

• Are you more of an outdoors person or a stay inside person? Why?

• What kind of tension do you think there is between the brothers leading up to the birthright/stew interaction? Did they get along? Why or why not?

Read: Genesis 28:10-32

• Which part of God’s blessing of Jacob (and Abraham) do you resonate with most? People, Place, Privilege, and Purpose?

• Why is it important for God to set Jacob’s course, and not Jacob doing it on his own?

• What is Jacob’s response?

Read: Genesis 32:24-32

• Why do you think Jacob wrestles with God? Why won’t he let him go?

• What is the significance of God changing Jacob’s name to Israel?

• How would you feel if God rewrote part of who you were?

• What parts of Jacob’s story do you relate with the most? Why do you think God uses imperfect people?

• What parts of your life are defined by other things? How do you need to change to allow God’s story to define you?

Pray: Share an area where you need to change because of God’s Unstoppable Story. Pray for each other.

09.17.23 - Small Group Discussion

God Sees Small Group Video

God Sees

When you can’t see the way forward, God is an ever-present help. 

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, and from Sunday’s message?

Read: Genesis 16:1-6

• Abraham and Sarah are listed in the “heroes of faith” chapter of Hebrews in the New Testament. How could they have behaved like this?

• In what areas of your life do you have trouble trusting God?

Read: Genesis 16:7-13

• In what ways did God help Hagar in this story?

Read: Genesis 21:8-14

• What would you have done if you were in Abraham’s shoes?

Read Genesis 21:15-16

• Share a time when you felt completely hopeless.

Read Genesis 21:17-21

• God helped Hagar for a second time here. How has God stepped into your moments of hopelessness and desperation?

• What Scriptures dovimeo you turn to when you are feeling hopeless?

Pray: Share an area in which you have trouble finding hope, and then pray for the patience to trust God.

09.10.23 - Small Group Discussion

Unexpected Help Small Group Video

Unexpected Help

When life doesn’t make sense, God is an ever-present help. 

• What stood out to you from your reading this week, and from Sunday’s message?

Read: Genesis 2:15-25

• What do you now understand better about this passage of Scripture?

• What was Adam’s problem? How did God resolve it for him?

Read: Psalm 46:1-3

• Share examples from Scripture of when God showed up as a help for his people.

• Share a story of when you clearly felt God’s presence.

• Think about the struggles in your own life. Where have you experienced God’s help?

Read Acts 17:24-29

• How does God satisfy our needs, and in what ways has he been close – “not far off” to you?

Pray: Have group members share 1 specific area in which they need God’s help, and then pray for one another.

08.27.23 - Small Group Discussion

Enough Small Group Discussion

Enough

God is enough. 

• What stood out to you from Sunday’s message?

Read: Exodus 20:17

• Think about coveting in your own life. What comes to mind?

• Why does God get so specific in this commandment, especially with compared to the few preceding it?

• How does American culture push you toward coveting?

Read: James 1:14-15

• How do these verses describe the process of coveting? What is the result of allowing sin to grow? How have you witnessed those results?

• What is “holy dissatisfaction,” and how can you practice that instead of coveting?

• In what ways is God actually enough?

Read: Exodus 20:18-19 & I Timothy 2:5-6

• What do you think of the Israelite’s reaction? Would you have been the same as them?

• How does Moses fulfil a similar role for the Israelites, that Jesus fulfils for you?

Pray: Partner up and share with each other where you’re struggling against coveting this week. Then pray for contentment. Then check in mid-week with your partner to see how they’re doing.

08.20.23 - Small Group Discussion

The Truth Will Set You Free Small Group Video

The Truth Will Set You Free

Lies distort community. 

• What caught your attention from Sunday’s message?

• How do you react when you find out that someone has lied to you? Why do you feel that way?

Read: Exodus 20:1-2

• How do these two verses set the stage for the rest of the 10 Commandments?

Read: Exodus 20:16, Deuteronomy 17:6-7, 19:15-19

• What did “false testimony” mean to the Israelites in Moses’ day?

• What does this commandment mean for us today?

Read: James 3:13-18

• In what ways do our words have power?

• What does it look like to be “false to the truth?” (v. 14)

• How would dishonesty have distorted community for the Israelites, and how can it distort community for us today? 

Pray: Ask God to help you identify where you struggle with theft. Then, ask him for the boldness to deal with that sin in your life.

08.13.23 - Small Group Discussion

The Little Things

The Little Things Small Group Video

Theft begins in the heart. 

• Share a time when something was taken from you without your consent. How did you deal with that situation?

• How have you struggled with the temptation to steal?

Read: Exodus 20:1-2

• Why is it important to note that the 10 Commandments were given to people who already belonged to God? What does this mean for how we use them today?

Read: Exodus 20:15

• Why does God oppose theft?

• What is the connection between theft, selfishness, and the way we value or devalue others?

Read: Romans 13:8-10

• In what ways does love “fulfill the requirements of the law”?

• What do you need to do to acknowledge God as the source of all possessions?

• What do you need to do to choose love?

Pray: Ask God to help you identify where you struggle with theft. Then, ask him for the boldness to deal with that sin in your life.

08.06.23 - Small Group Discussion

Faithful

Faithful Small Groups Video

God defines our sexuality.  Be faithful!

• What was the weirdest rule your parents had for you when you were growing up?

• Why did we fight our parents rules when we were growing up?

Read: Exodus 20:1-17

• Which is the easiest command for you to follow?

• What’s the hardest?  Why?

• If we were to expand verse 14, what would you include?

Read: Matthew 5:27-30

• Why do you think Jesus was so drastic in his statements about sex here?

• If Jesus is so direct and drastic, why is sexual sin such a problem within the church?

• What things can we do to flee from the world’s saturation of unhealthy sexuality?

• What God things can we do to keep our eyes/hands/heart focused on God’s Kingdom rather than the world?

• Being faithful to God’s view of sex is a team effort.  Who are the Nathans in your life?  Who could be the Nathans in your life?

Read: Psalm 51

• How does it make you feel to know that God views each of us as a person of deep worth?

• Even knowing this, why is it hard to deal with our sin?  How can we help one another>

Pray: Ask God for humility in your life so you will do the right thing and flee from the sexual sin in your life.

07.30.23 - Small Group Questions

Life

Life Small Groups Video

Life belongs to God.

• What’s something that you wish people had more common sense about?

• Do you believe people are generally good or generally evil? Why?

Read: Exodus 20:8-12

• Do you practice either of these commandments? What does that look like for you?

Read: Exodus 20:13

• Why did God have to say this? Would you put this commandment in the category of “common sense?” Why?

Read: Genesis 4:1-10

• Can you imagine being Cain? Murder had never been committed until this time. How do you imagine the fallout of this decision affected him into the future?

• Should Cain have known that murder was wrong?

Read: Matthew 5:21-22

• In what ways are you guilty of breaking Jesus’ teaching here?

• What can you do to seek life this week?

Pray: Ask God to show you where you are breaking his commandments, and to help you seek life.

07.23.23 Small Group Discussion

Original Sin

Original Sin Small Groups Video

The first sin is to reject God. 

• What do you know about the Ten Commandments?

Read: Exodus 20:1-3

• How easy do you find it to be to worship only God?

• What are you giving the most attention to in your life?

Read: Genesis 3:1-6

• Adam and Eve were un-convinced that God’s way was best, and were convinced to take the forbidden fruit. In what areas of life do you struggle to be convinced that God’s way is best?

Read: Exodus 20:4-6

• What idols have you created in your life?

Read: Exodus 1:7

• In what ways are you guilty of breaking this commandment?

• What do you need to do this week to submit yourself to God and to worship him alone?

• How does worshipping God instead of ourselves help mend human relationships?

Pray: Ask God to reveal ways in which you are not living up to the standard of the first three commandments, and to help you make changes so that you worship God alone and treat him as holy.