08.01.21 - Small Group Discussion

Face the Mirror - James 4:1-13 (8.1.21)

Selfishness and submission are mutually exclusive. 

ICE BREAKER: What is one thing where you know you are selfish? (For example, the remote control, restaurant choice, etc.)

Read: James 4:1-2

  • How does selfishness destroy relationships?

  • Verse 2 says “so you kill.” We may not commit murder, but what are some of the ways selfishness can cause us to “kill” in a figurative sense?

Read: James 4:2-6

  • How does selfishness impact your faith? Your relationship with God?

  • God equates friendship with “the world” with adultery. What do you think that means? Why does James use such powerful imagery?

  • How do you cultivate humility?

Read: James 4:7-10

  • James details some ways we can resist the devil. What are they, and how do we practice them with persistence?

  • What is the relationship between humility and submission and intentionally purifying one’s self?

Prayer: Pray this week’s memory verse, James 4:7 – “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”